Control. It's at the center of everything. Giving it. Taking it. In our professional lives and personal lives. For many, giving up control is a relief. Let someone else do the driving.

You've probably been in situations where you thought, I'd let that guy control me, control my cock, my ass, every breath I take. If I only had the nerve. Was it the hot guy at work, the neighborhood cop or, perhaps, some athlete on TV? Maybe these submissive thoughts freaked you out, at first, but then you gave into the fantasy. Jerking your cock to the thought of it.

But it can be difficult to achieve. Even the weakest among us can have difficulty giving up control to someone else and become truly submissive. This is especially so in sex. A majority crave it, some rather intensely, but are too afraid to do so in real life. That’s where phone sex comes into the equation. It's a unique way to travel to those dark places where we can't, won’t, or aren’t ready to go, in reality. If you’ve reached this site, that's probably you.

To be dominated sexually is to relinquish control of your two primary sex organs: the brain and the cock. And relinquishing one leads to giving up the other. To explore the realm of submission is to open yourself to freedom from your everyday life and its burdens. Let go and feel that exquisite relief. Of course, in any traditional Dom/sub relationship, the sub must grant permission to the Dom a power exchange. Once that occurs, all bets are off. The possibilities are endless; as limitless as your imagination.

There are myriad ways to give up control of your cock (and the rest of your body.) Some guys like it fairly mild. Perhaps a good mind fuck, like tease and denial. Or guided masturbation, where the Dom takes charge of your jack off session. Others like it more extreme. Do you crave an intense role play scene, with, perhaps, a healthy dose of obedience or humiliation? Or maybe you seek a BDSM session (la douleur exquise!) or want to explore the vast array of kink and fetish. With so much territory to cover, why not explore it all? What’s your pleasure (or pain)?